SIBLING RIVALRY: Sisters face off against each other — as coaches

Louisburg head girls basketball coach Adrianne Lane (left) and Harrisonville head coach BryAnn Middleton squared off with one another Thursday as the two sisters led their teams against each other for the first time.

Anchored on opposite sidelines Thursday at Harrisonville High School, Louisburg’s Adrianne Lane and Harrisonville’s BryAnn Middleton had a reunion of sorts.

At a glance, it might not seem that big of a deal for some, but if you were took look a little closer it touches many different levels.

Drexel Bobcat vs. Drexel Bobcat.

Louisburg Wildcat vs. Harrisonville Wildcat. 

Family vs. Family

Or more specifically, sister vs. sister.

That’s right, for the first time in a long while, Adrianne and BryAnn found themselves competing against each other — instead of competing together. Whether it was in high school at Drexel High, or later on in life, they both have had that competitive fire for the game of basketball.

After spending two years in high school on the same team, they went their separate ways to play college basketball. Throughout many of life’s journeys, they found their way back together on the court again — as coaches.

Not only was it a special moment for the two sisters, but it was also a big game for the respective teams.

For Adrianne, her team could clinch a top four seed, which would allow Louisburg to host sub-state.

And for BryAnn, this was a more special moment. Harrisonville had already clinched a conference championship, but it was Senior Night and she had to say goodbye to four players.

Neither team — or coach — wanted to lose and it had nothing to do with bragging rights.

“To be honest I was thinking more about senior night than coaching against my sister,” BryAnn said. “I knew it was going to be really special for our parents and daughters, but I think we both were just very concerned with our teams. We are both focused on the postseason and it was emotional for me because I’m losing 4 amazing players and people next season.”

“I knew going into the game that Harrisonville would play us tough,” Adrianne said. “I knew they would play great defense and would battle every possession. I felt like this was one of our more intense games the whole season.”

So there they were, screaming out instructions to their players in hopes of getting the win. Drawing up plays — plays and fundamentals they learned from when they were young.

You see, Adrianne and BryAnn were a part of state championship team at Drexel in 1996. Big sister BryAnn was a junior and Adrianne was a freshman.

It was see easy to see their competitive fires on the court and their coach had to find out the hard way one day in practice.

As a freshman, Adrianne was a member of the scout team, and with a player gone from practice, her coach, Brent Bartlett, decided to have her guard BryAnn. What happened next was unforgettable, you might say.

“Big, huge mistake,” BryAnn said. “She was not going to let me score and I was not going to let her stop me. It got pretty physical.”

“Let’s just say it ended with me pinning her against the wall, and she spit in my face, because that was her only defense,” Adrianne said. 

That seems pretty accurate.

“I think I put her on the floor and then when she got up she pinned me against the wall,” BryAnn said. “She had my legs and arms pinned so my only defense was to spit in her face. Not my brightest moment, but I didn’t want to lose.”

In the midst of the scrum, their coach — not sure what to do — decided to empty the gym. All except the two sisters. He had other ideas for them.

“After that the coach cleared the gym and made us run sprints,” Adrianne said. “And we ran hard.”

You would think after the tussle, their competitive fire would simmer a little. 

Nope.

“I think it was the hardest we had ever run, because again neither of us wanted to lose,” BryAnn said.

As rough as that day of practice was, it led to bigger and better things for the two sisters. Drexel went on to win the state championship that year and that team was eventually inducted into the Missouri Sports Hall of Fame. 

BryAnn and Adrianne used all the running in practice and turned it into something good on the track. The two were members of the school’s 4×800 relay that won a gold medal at state that same year and finished second the following season.

“Being able to compete with my sister was always so rewarding,” Adrianne said. “She was quite the athlete and being able to be on her team, whether it was basketball or track relay team, was quite an honor. She worked so hard to be the great athlete she was.”

The two sisters then turned that success into college basketball careers, and then eventually into coaching. On Thursday, they were competing against each other once again.

They both knew their opponent well — not because of their players necessarily — but the two have similar ideas. When they have a chance to have family gatherings, basketball is always on the agenda.

“We are so busy keeping up with our schedules and our daughters’ schedules that we do not get a lot of time together,” BryAnn said. “When we are together that is almost all we talk about though. I love hearing her perspective and getting her advice. I love her take on new drills. I feel our philosophies are very similar and we realize that practice is where it is at and that is what you need to focus on the most to help your team and players level up.”

There to take it all in were their parents, Bryon and Lorrie Cook. Wearing neutral colors, they were there cheering on their daughters the best way they knew how — with smiles.

“I think my parents were probably the most excited they have been in a long time,” Adrianne said. “They spend most weekdays and weekends watching my family or my sisters family playing basketball. So having us all in one building was so exciting for them. I also know they are so proud of us and our programs. They are dedicated fans to both programs so I know they were cheering on every play.”

As the two teams traded shots in the first half, Louisburg got the best of Harrisonville with a big third quarter and held on for a 52-45 win. Adrianne got the bragging rights this time around, but neither coach was about to make this about them.

“I was so proud of the girls for finishing with a win,” Adrianne said. “It was a sweet win, but for me it was more about getting the 4 seed than anything.”

When the final buzzer sounded the two teams lined up to shake hands. As the two sisters came together, there was nothing but love between the two of them.

No spitting or pinning each other up against the scorer’s table, just admiration for what both have accomplished.

“From what I have seen, my sister has improved the Harrisonville girls basketball program tremendously,” Adrianne said. “Her work ethic is shown in this program as well as her dedication. I am so proud of her and how she has given herself to this program, the girls on her team are so lucky to have her.”

“I’m very excited for (Adrianne) and her sub-state this season,” BryAnn said. “Sounds like there is a chance we will get to go support them in Salina again this year. We are there when we can be.”

Just like any family would.

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